Question
Please advise me how to deal with the heartbreak of divorce. I have this empty, terrible feeling inside me. My chest is heavy and I feel my stomach is churning. I find myself thinking back on all the good times I‟ve shared with my wife and wanting to go back. Please advise.
Answer
Why would a true Muslim not feel as you are feeling when saddled with such a heartbreaking calamity when even the Arsh of Allah Azza Wa Jal shudders when divorce takes place? If you have not issued three Talaaqs and if your wife is willing to reconcile, then do so. However, if three Talaaqs have been issued or your wife refuses to reconcile, then banish her from your mind. It will take time. Time is a cure. Increase Thikrullaah and Istighfaar. The Qur'aan Majeed says: ―Verily, in the Thikr of Allah do hearts find rest.‖ May Allah Ta'ala grant you peace.
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- The Majlis Vol 26 No 11
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